I wonder and wonder why is there always misunderstandings, minor arguements & 'cold war' between friends despite the fact that you have been friends for 2 years or so. Perhaps we can't hide or run away from these obstacles that come in between of our way when everything was perfect ten then.it has become part & parcel of our life. hmm, perhaps our life might be too dull if there wasn't any ups & downs but the more the downs we have in our life, the tougher our life gets. This obstacles will then destroy the friendships & TRUST that we have build during the 2 years of friendship..
its depressing to see my friends having some 'cold war' with each other. and its even worse if i am the middle person. you know what exactly happens between the 2 parties & you just want to settle everything and end the matter but afraid that the truth might be harsh for our friends to take it. and obviously, you do not want to be implicated into that 'dramatic' story of theirs.well, you have to be selfish sometimes! and yes, occassionally we have to be cruel to be kind but what if you are too soft-hearted? you'll definately don't even have the guts to confront to your friend and speak the truth. you wish & hope someone like Superman will save the day but all these are just fat hopes!! you might be that type of person where you'll be transfixed and braindead when your friend is just right under your nose and then run is the next step if you've failed to talk.
Well, I AM that type of person...so it'll be absolutely impossible for me to do that!! and even if you have spoken to your friend, the next problem might just pop-out of the box! A minor arguement will then eventually becomes bigger & bigger & bigger...........
and by then you are totally LOST! Lost for directions.
& feeling so HELPLESS. helpless with your emotions, & problems with those friends of yours...
And all you do is just hope!! Hope that everything turns out perfectly fine. Hope that time will heal everything for you. Sigh. And your questions will still be left unanswered...
Sigh... :/
i'll just cross my fingers & pray that everything will be perfectly fine tomorrow. Always have hopes that tomorrow will always be better than today.... [=
trust is damn hard to earn...
strange thoughts & feelings..
Written on: Thursday, May 11, 2006 Time: 11:50 pm
I wonder and wonder why is there always misunderstandings, minor arguements & 'cold war' between friends despite the fact that you have been friends for 2 years or so. Perhaps we can't hide or run away from these obstacles that come in between of our way when everything was perfect ten then.it has become part & parcel of our life. hmm, perhaps our life might be too dull if there wasn't any ups & downs but the more the downs we have in our life, the tougher our life gets. This obstacles will then destroy the friendships & TRUST that we have build during the 2 years of friendship..
its depressing to see my friends having some 'cold war' with each other. and its even worse if i am the middle person. you know what exactly happens between the 2 parties & you just want to settle everything and end the matter but afraid that the truth might be harsh for our friends to take it. and obviously, you do not want to be implicated into that 'dramatic' story of theirs.well, you have to be selfish sometimes! and yes, occassionally we have to be cruel to be kind but what if you are too soft-hearted? you'll definately don't even have the guts to confront to your friend and speak the truth. you wish & hope someone like Superman will save the day but all these are just fat hopes!! you might be that type of person where you'll be transfixed and braindead when your friend is just right under your nose and then run is the next step if you've failed to talk.
Well, I AM that type of person...so it'll be absolutely impossible for me to do that!! and even if you have spoken to your friend, the next problem might just pop-out of the box! A minor arguement will then eventually becomes bigger & bigger & bigger...........
and by then you are totally LOST! Lost for directions.
& feeling so HELPLESS. helpless with your emotions, & problems with those friends of yours...
And all you do is just hope!! Hope that everything turns out perfectly fine. Hope that time will heal everything for you. Sigh. And your questions will still be left unanswered...
Sigh... :/
i'll just cross my fingers & pray that everything will be perfectly fine tomorrow. Always have hopes that tomorrow will always be better than today.... [=
